How to spot signs of cyberbullying

Despite its relative infancy, the internet has become so prevalent in daily life that it’s hard to imagine a time when it wasn’t so widely available. Yet that time wasn’t so long ago. In fact, many adults who are now entering or in middle-age made it through their secondary educations without the internet. That’s not so for today’s students, and that divide can sometimes make it difficult for parents to spot signs that their children are victims of cyberbullying.

Cyberbullying refers to the use of electronic communication to bully a person, typically by sending intimidating and/or threatening messages. These messages may be sent in various ways, including through apps or via social media platforms. Research has shown that a quick and consistent response to bullying is an effective way to convey that such behavior is unacceptable. But parents first must learn to recognize signs of cyberbullying, which is not always as easy to spot as other bullying behaviours.

The Anti-Defamation League notes hateful words and rumours are often a component of cyberbullying. In such instances, abuse can follow young people home, giving them the idea that the bullying is inescapable. In decades past, bullying victims could at least see their homes as safe havens. That’s no longer the case, which is why it’s vital parents learn to recognize the signs of cyberbullying.

Young people may exhibit their own unique symptoms if they’re being victimized by cyberbullies. In addition, parents can look for these signs and then take immediate action if they suspect their children are being cyberbullied.

· A child becomes upset, sad or angry during or after being online or using their phone. · A child withdraws from family or friends. · A child expresses reluctance or refuses to participate in activities previously enjoyed. · A child has an unexplained decline in grades. · A child refuses to go to school or expresses anger or dissatisfaction with a specific class or school in general. · A child increasingly reports symptoms of illness for which he or she wants to stay at home. · A child shows signs of depression or sadness.

Parents who see any of these signs should respond to them immediately. Take a gentle, supportive tone during any discussions with children, making sure to express your concerns while also listening to the child when he or she explains what is so upsetting. Parents who have confirmed or suspect their child is a victim of cyberbullying should contact their children’s school immediately.

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